Most men think that getting a girl wet and making her orgasm is rocket science. After all, every woman is different, and each one has a different turn on.
Well, let me tell you a big secret: there exist some proven ways to make a woman go crazy which work with every female.
You just have to follow each of the following steps carefully, and I promise that you will make her horny like she’s never been before.
A Step By Step Guide To Getting Her Horny
1. Make a connection
The first thing you need to know about women before getting involved with them is that they don’t think about sex the same way men do.
For most girls, sleeping with someone is much more than the physical intercourse itself, and sex has a much deeper meaning than you might imagine.
Therefore, it doesn’t matter if a girl likes you for real—she probably won’t sleep with you on the first date because she needs to feel something more than mere physical attraction towards you to let you get into her pants.
You need to make this girl feel special around you, and she needs to consciously decide that you’re the man she should sleep with (besides just wanting it).
Well, it is your job to prove to her that you won’t use her and that you’re not only interested in sleeping with her. It is your job to seduce her mind before seducing her body.
And the best way to do it is to do your best to make a deeper connection with this girl; to form other types of intimacy besides just sexual, to show her that she can trust you and that she can be completely relaxed around you.
Don’t get me wrong—I’m not saying that you ought to declare your undying love for her right on the first date.
Just become her friend and someone she feels good hanging out with.
However, don’t allow this period of bonding to last too long because you might easily end up in the friendzone, and if that happens, chances are that you’ll never bring this girl to the bedroom.
2. Flirt with her
Once you see that you’ve managed to gain this girl’s trust, it is about time to start with some concrete action.
You want to show this girl that you’re into her, and you want her to see you as more than a friend, so what better way to start doing it than openly flirting with her?
Before you begin seducing her, you need to know that some women need more time to take the hint that you like them.
Maybe she has some insecurity issues and doesn’t think it is possible that someone would be hitting on her.
Maybe she prefers thinking that nothing is actually happening because she wants to protect herself from falling for you and eventually getting hurt or maybe she simply doesn’t realize your intentions.
Either way, this is where you have to be pretty clear about the direction in which you want your relationship to go.
However, instead of telling her that you like her straightforwardly (because that might scare her off and is usually a big turn off), use your body language signals to show her how attracted you are to her.
You might not know this, but flirting is also a type of foreplay, and it is an introduction to what’s coming next.
Whenever you two go out together, make sure you sit next to each other.
This way, you’ll have a chance to be closer to her and a chance to do something when the timing is right.
Use every opportunity to touch her (but don’t be a creep).
For example, if you see she has something on her face, take it off gently; touch her hand, shoulder or knee when you’re talking to her or touch her hair from time to time.
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Also, eye contact is crucial. And I’m not talking about only checking out her body.
Whenever you two are talking, make sure you look her straight in the eyes, without ever looking away.
Stare at her lips, and use sexual innuendos because this will be a demonstrator that you want to kiss her badly.
The important thing about this step is for this girl’s body to get used to the presence of your body. She needs to start considering your touch familiar and comfortable.
Also, don’t forget to always make her want more. Don’t flirt with her all the time and with the same intensity.
You can shower her with attention one day, and then act like her friend the next one. Don’t worry, these are not mixed signals and mind games.
It is just a way for her to notice that she misses your touch and realize she enjoys it more than she thought she did.
However, remember to respect her boundaries, and don’t ever do anything you see she is not perfectly OK with.
Observe her reactions carefully, and if you see that she is not running away from you, that she is not moving away whenever you come closer, and that she is not taking your hand off her when you touch her, it is definitely a sign that this girl enjoys being near you, and it is a green light for you to continue flirting.
On the other hand, if you notice that you have zero feedback and that her body language signs are giving you a big, fat ‘no’, it is time to take things more slowly or to give up on her altogether because maybe you don’t want the same things.
Be careful and realistic, and don’t run away from the truth, just because it is not pleasant.
3. Be spontaneous
You know why girls like bad boys and never put them in the friend zone? Because they give them the thrill and excitement of the unknown.
Don’t get me wrong—I’m not advising you to instantly become a fuckboy who treats all women around him like crap because that is definitely not the way to any girl.
Don’t be irresponsible and immature when it comes to important life decisions, but when it comes to dating, be spontaneous and forget about planning ahead.
Show her that you didn’t spend your entire day thinking about ways how to approach her because that will only make you look desperate, and it will definitely be counterproductive.
Instead, surprise her with your action, and let her see that you’re doing whatever the hell you want to do in a given moment.
Start with asking her out: instead of announcing your date a few days ahead, just suggest a new activity out of the blue.
Call her and tell her that you were passing by her house, and ask her if she is in the mood for drinks.
At first glance, you might suppose that she will turn you down because she probably already has plans.
However, trust me that she will fit you into her busy schedule if she really likes you because she will be impressed with your bravery and spontaneous behavior.
Besides, she will want to know what you have prepared for her this time because you are obviously a man with whom she could never know what to expect.
Just don’t be predictable, and your confidence will make every girl’s heart tremble.
The same goes with all physical contact. Don’t plan it, and don’t directly ask for her permission to proceed to the next base.
Instead, feel her vibe, focus on the atmosphere of a given situation, and work on your ability to estimate whether it is the right timing to make a move or not, without thinking things thoroughly.
Trust me—the thing that makes every girl crazy for a man is the fact he goes after his instincts and follows his gut.
It shows her that he is a real macho man who has the ability to seduce women in his blood.
4. Use sexting to your advantage
Even though many say that modern dating has brought us more bad than good things, nobody can argue that it has also made this entire relationship game a hell easier.
You might not have enough confidence to hit on a girl you like in person but that is why you can use texting and social media to your advantage.
One of the most successful ways to get a girl wet is through sexting, which can serve you as a prequel and a foreplay to what’s coming next.
When you make her horny through text, it will be a lot easier to seal the deal when you two meet.
If you’re trying to figure out how to make girl wet on facebook, other social media or through dating apps, the number one piece of advice is not to be one of those guys who send their dickpics out of the blue because it will only make her think of you as a creep and a maniac.
Instead, start things easily, and see whether she is in the mood to continue your sexy game of typing.
Start with complimenting her looks in a double-edged way and use innuendos, but don’t lose your politeness at first.
Once you see that you’ve got the green light, it is OK to become more relaxed and to initiate more serious dirty talk.
Of course, what is important here is to preserve your image of a big seducer when you see this woman face-to-face because you don’t want to be accused of false pretenses once she sees that you’re not actually the guy you pretended to be over the phone.
5. Break the ice with a hug
When you hug someone, it means that you’re fond of them. However, knowing that you hug your friends, your parents, your siblings and other people you love in a non-sexual way, it is clear that there is a crucial difference between types of hugs.
At the same time, this is the least ‘dangerous’ form of physical contact and something you could use as a great and effective icebreaker and starting point when it comes to getting a girl horny.
So, how do you hug the girl you like? How do you use this hug to make her want you?
First of all, wait for the right moment.
Yes, you will of course hug her when you see her approaching you or when you’re saying your goodbyes, but you can also do it during an emotional moment in which she would probably appreciate your physical and moral support.
When you hug a girl, you gently pull her in and hold her in your arms.
If you see that she is not pulling back, you can pat her back, smell her hair or even put your hands on her butt cheeks.
Also, you can spoon her while hugging her. Just stand behind her and hug her from the back.
This way, you have more control over what is going on, and you are closer to her neck and ear which are without doubt every girl’s erogenous zones.
Make sure she feels your breath all over her face or neck because that is a sure way to her wetness.
6. Tease her
The next thing you have to do is create a sexual tension between the two of you. And what better way to do it then to tease her?
Despite what you might have heard, the truth is that girls love to be playfully teased. It intensifies their sexual desire and makes them want more.
So, instead of jumping on her right away, prolong these games for as long as possible. Lean in on her like you’re going to kiss her, and then pull away.
Get close to her when you’re telling her something, but don’t make a move or make direct eye contact. Then look away after a while.
All of this will make a girl wet and make her wonder what you want from her.
7. Whisper slowly in her ear
Another bulletproof way to intensify a girl’s sexual desire and her wetness is by whispering slowly in her ear.
For example, if you’re in a crowded place or in a noisy club, this will be the only way for you to actually tell her something, and it is definitely a situation which you should use to your own advantage.
At first, this conversation doesn’t have to be dirty. You can tell her some everyday stuff and make some small talk until you see that she is comfortable having you this close.
Later on, you can proceed with the dirty talk, and you can continue telling her some things all girls love to hear.
You can compliment her appearance or talk to her about all the things you want to do to her.
Trust me—this will make her tremble. It will make her blood flow, and it will instantly make this girl horny.
8. Kiss her
After you’ve done with everything mentioned above, it is time for a crucial step: it is time to finally kiss this girl on the lips.
It is more than clear that she is up for it and that she probably is awaiting it the same way you are.
So, how exactly should you kiss the girl you like for the first time?
Well, the first step is to find the perfect place and timing.
You want the first kiss to make this girl feel special, so it would be nice if you could do it somewhere private while the two of you are alone.
After you’re done with this, it is time to approach her as closely as possible.
It is perfectly OK to enter her personal space because she has already given you permission to do so by responding positively to your flirting and touching until now.
It is important for you to take the lead. Don’t just stand there near her face, expecting her to do all the work because a man who doesn’t take the initiative is everything but a turn on for most girls.
Also, you have to make a perfect balance between being gentle and rough.
You don’t want to do this violently, but she shouldn’t think that you’re too much of a coward to make a move on her.
Grab her face and start by kissing all the parts of her face before proceeding to the lips.
Put a few kisses on her nose and everywhere around her mouth, and then finally, reach out to the real kiss.
First, start slowly, and then bring more intensity into it.
Make sure the kiss is passionate because it is something which will make her blood flow and prepare her for what’s coming next.
9. Get her naked slowly
All of us love a quicky where the entire room is filled with passion you can almost cut with a knife.
However, when you’re trying to get a girl wet for the first time ever, you want to make her as relaxed and as comfortable as possible, so it would be better to take things slowly.
Instead of ripping all of her clothes off right away, take off piece by piece, and do all of this while kissing her and touching all of her body parts.
Leave her bra and panties on for a longer period of time until you see that she is dying to take them off.
Increase the sexual tension by making her anticipate the real deal and don’t rush anything.
You’ll see that she is completely wet and horny without even touching her ‘down there’—her fast breathing and the way she kisses you will be signal enough.
10. Focus on her erogenous zones
Once you get her fully naked, it is time to pay more attention to all of her erogenous zones. A great sex life doesn’t exist without high quality foreplay which includes all body parts.
First, start with her neck and ears. Rub your nose gently on her neck, breathe intensely directly in her ear, and then start kissing them.
While you’re doing that, keep your hands busy. Start by rubbing her knees and then proceed to her inner thighs.
The next erogenous zone is her butt. Your touching this area is something both of you will definitely enjoy, so dedicate as much time as you want.
If you’re doing everything right, you’ll notice vaginal discharge coming out of her, and this wetness is a green light to keep up with a good job.
11. Show her that you know what you’re doing
Now that you’ve studied this step by step guide on how to make a woman horny, the final trick is to show this girl that you’re a skillful lover with a lot of sexual experience who doesn’t question his ability to get her wet and who knows what he is doing for real.
Whatever you’re doing to her, and whatever body part you’re focused on, always maintain eye contact to increase sexual tension.
Make her blood flow by just looking at her, and make her understand that you’re full of self-confidence and that she won’t regret letting you in her panties.
If it happens that she is too dry, it is not something you should worry about. It only means means it’s time to use some vaginal lubrication which will work like a charm.
Don’t worry—using lubes or sex toys doesn’t make you any less of a man, and it certainly doesn’t mean that you don’t know how to make a girl wet.
In fact, it shows that you have enough sexual experience to know what she needs and how to please her the best way.
Remember: sex is not rocket science. Just follow your basic instincts, and I assure you that you’ll make all the right moves.